Here's the thing.

Here's the thing...

If you care enough to talk about my blog, you probably should have the guts or the care to comment to me directly instead of speculating about what I mean.

I don't have to defend my blog of all things, but in my family, in case you haven't guessed it, defending "what we mean" in all things is a daily routine.

This whole thing wasn't woe is me how sad my life is. And no if Zack read this he would not want to dump me flat out because his name isn't even in this damn thing.

This is about looking back and how it feels, and how you thought it would be, and how it ended up, and what you would do differently, and how even though you would have taken a different path you would only want the same destination.

Really what's the point of having a blog if people will just talk about it and make assumptions? I write this for me, only me, and if you're reading it and you're a part of my life then instead of guessing what I mean----- just ask. I'm nothing if not honest.

And maybe it just freaks people out because they realize that there's a lot they don't know about me.

Before I get people being mean or rude to me about this, this is not my intention. I just felt this one time I would defend myself and this blog, but after this, going forward, I am sure you all realize where I am coming from so it will be less vague in the future.

That's all.

Love,

ME!